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Research-backed answers to questions parents ask most. Each one explains what is going on, what the research says and how strong it is, one thing worth trying, and when to ask for more help.

• Why does my child melt down in public places?Common, usually short, and tied to how a child handles big feelings. What the research says and one thing to try.
• Why does bedtime turn into a battle?A predictable routine, enough sleep and the wish for one more minute. What the research supports and what it doesn't.
• Why is saying goodbye so hard for my child?Some goodbye distress is a normal stage; some children feel it more. What helps, and when to ask for more help.
• Why is everything such a battle with my child?Saying no, pushing back, and the daily fights over shoes, teeth and screens. What is typical, what helps, and when to ask.
• Why won't my child eat new foods?Fear of new foods, texture, and the mealtime standoff. What research says helps, and what it says to avoid.
• Why does it feel like my kid never hears what I'm saying?Why repeating yourself rarely works, what the research says doesn't help, and what to try instead.
• Why does my child hit, bite or push other kids?Why most children go through it, what's often underneath, and what helps when a daycare or school is worried.

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