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FAQ

What do I actually get?

Not a type or a label. You get a written picture of how your child is wired, and specific things to try in the moments that are hardest, so you can stop guessing and start responding. One-time $24 (free while we test), with no subscription and no password. We ask for your email at the end so we can send you your profile.

See a sample profile for a fictional child.

How will my parenting actually change?

You'll feel more prepared for the moments that are hardest for your child! You'll be equipped with a practical step to help your kid thrive in the moments that matter most to you and your child.

Each section ends with one practical step to try, the moment to try it in, and a sign to watch for that tells you whether it's working.

What backs this up?

The questions are written on the dimensions researchers use to describe children — approach, intensity, adaptability, sensitivity to the senses and the rest — and on the idea that what matters is how well the environment fits the child, which researchers have studied since the 1950s. The profile names the research behind each claim in plain words.

Is this a screener for anything?

No. It doesn't look for conditions and it won't suggest one. If your child already has a diagnosis, you don't need to share it. The profile is built from how your child actually acts day to day, and it won't add or confirm a label.

Can my child do it?

No. The quiz should be taken only by adults. It's about your child, answered by you.

Why do you ask for my email?

So we can email you your profile with a private link to come back to it, send one short check-in a week later, and connect any feedback you give us to your own profile. Your profile appears on screen as soon as you enter it; the email follows. We never sell or share your address, and we don't use it for marketing.

Who else sees it?

Nobody unless you share it. A future version will let a co-parent and/or teacher answer questions from their experience too; you'll preview exactly what they'd see before anything is sent.

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